Friday, April 2, 2010

REASONS WHY SO MANY CHILDREN DISOBEY

Reasons why so many children disobey is that they frequently hear the word "DON'T" -the brain steps over the word don't -as it is not a verb or a noun that can be pictured. The brain goes to the rest of the message, then it might return to the word don't by negating the entire message, so dear, dear parents please make sure, next time you avoid using this word and you tell your little one, what exactly you want them to do.All the BEST, get going.
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10 comments:

  1. Illusion Wonders!April 2, 2010 at 9:45 PM

    Very true! Maybe the parents should tell themselves, " DON'T imagine a red elephant with blue ears and a yellow tail..... " They might get the point :)

    Where a negative command is unavoidable state it positively with the consequence. Eg.
    - Don't touch it!
    - If you touch it your finger will burn and hurt a lot. So take care

    Thanku Sree for the tip!

    Maya

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  2. UnknownApril 10, 2010 at 2:04 AM

    Very much true........ Always hearing don't make somebody feel that they are to say don't in the future.........

    Thanks dear

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  3. AnonymousJanuary 3, 2011 at 12:05 AM

    Your right Sree,'Don't' is a negative word and will only lead to negativity.I liked the eg quoted by IW.Another reason for disobedience is giving in to all your child's demands without being firm.

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  4. UnknownJanuary 14, 2011 at 2:30 AM

    children disobey
    1. they are commanded not lovingly told
    2. By virtue of being a parent they are to be obeyed
    3. parent do not listen to objection raised by the child

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  5. AbbyFebruary 1, 2011 at 4:49 PM

    congrats Sree for the effort behind this.


    " 'Don't' is a negative word and will only lead to negativity.I liked the eg quoted by IW.Another reason for disobedience is giving in to all your child's demands without being firm."

    isn't this somewhat cotradicting shuvradey?
    only telling "don't" has problems? doing "don't" no problem? little confusing.

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  6. UnknownFebruary 2, 2011 at 8:06 PM

    Hai Sree hats off to ur efforts ,as usual.

    now we know how a simple word like dont could have such serious effects. very true.

    good day Sree

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  7. ChandramohanFebruary 3, 2011 at 10:24 AM

    Dear Shree...Wonderful efforts from you.I've never expected that you are having such a "Gifted Mind"..Sasneham..Mohan

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  8. Gifted MindsFebruary 11, 2011 at 12:08 AM

    The difference between need and want has to be made clear. And here you can decide if you have to be firm or not

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  9. nebuFebruary 24, 2011 at 4:13 PM

    A simpler explanation is that the mind needs to being to its conscious awareness what not to think and so in the process thinks about it
    and therefor becomes more entrenched in it.
    Try not to think about about a blue elephant!!
    Abraham
    www.mindmasters.org

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  10. UnknownFebruary 27, 2011 at 2:22 AM

    hai Sree
    Thanks alot for your valuble tip.Let me work out with my son.I think it makes alot of change in him.Thanks alot once again for enlightening me with nice tips like this
    susmitha

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